Tuesday, 14 April 2015

Leisure - Stop and Stare



 
What is this life if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.
No time to stand beneath the boughs
And stare as long as sheep or cows.
No time to see, when woods we pass,
Where squirrels hide their nuts in grass.
No time to see, in broad daylight,
Streams full of stars, like skies at night.
No time to turn at Beauty's glance,
And watch her feet, how they can dance.
No time to wait till her mouth can
Enrich that smile her eyes began.
A poor life this if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.
— W. H. Davies

 

I first came across Leisure way back in school, and since then it has been one of my favourite poems. A repeated gentle reminder to enjoy life. To absorb the small little things all around me that are free and beautiful.

We are stuck in a race though life, a race for money, a race for promotions, a race for everything. And in this race we miss out on some the most valuable things.



Every time I catch the dogs sitting and staring out with no real objective I’m reminded of ‘Leisure’. They seem to be listening to the birds, watching them fly about, listening the leaves rustle, the clouds slowly waft across, the sun move across the sky...

Well, I think they are doing all of this. But maybe they aren’t, however they are definitely like W. H. Davies describes it doing a ‘stand and stare’. :D

Monday, 13 April 2015

Kindness - A Special Type of Kind



 

Little deeds of kindness,
Little words of love,
Make our pleasant earth below
Like the heaven above.
- "Little Things" (1845) Julia Carney



 

The dogs keep me on my toes constantly trying to stay one step ahead of them. It’s an extremely rare day when I have not had a hair pulling out moment.

Something is one of them covering another, other times it’s someone being jumped at, or it’s them being cheeky and doing something that they shouldn’t, like chewing up my jacket zippers. Oh the list is long...

But there are those days when I’m feeling off, I’m not well, not fully up to the mark. On those days it’s amazing to see the pack behave. They toe the line, don’t give me any trouble and seem to go out of their way to make my life easy.



Of the pack, Senti has exceptional behaviour. When he isn’t well or I’m not well, he starts to follow me everywhere right at my heels. We become a team of Mary and her Little Lamb.

Sometimes I’m so engrossed in what I’m doing, I don’t even realise I’m ill or falling ill until I suddenly notice Senti sticking to my heels. Like today, we decided to sort the store room out and the dust and mould got me all clogged up in the throat.

I was almost breathless and breathing raggedly but so focussed on getting things done that I just kept doggedly on, pushing to get the room done. It wasn’t until I suddenly noticed Senti stuck there at my heels that I noticed just how bad my breathing was.



I don’t know why he does it, or why my pack behaves the way they do when I’m sick but it moves me. It’s a kindness they show that is heart-warming and just wonderful. It makes me want to give them tight hugs and kisses.

Well at least until the next time they tick me off. :D

Sunday, 12 April 2015

Interview with Subhash Kommuru about his book Chatur



I had reviewed Chatur some time back. I had been quite impressed with Chatur, it not only had an interesting moral but it was also written in Hindi with an English script provided for people who have trouble reading Hindi. The concept interested me as it was a good way to bring back stories in our own languages.

Wanting to understand the concept better and the thought behind Chatur, I planned to do an interview with Subhash Kommuru. Some how though the interview got buried in my email and I forgot about it. My bad, Sorry Subhash. However I remembered it the other day and here it is now. Here are the questions I asked Subhash Kommuru, the author of Chatur and his answers.



Would tell us a little about yourself?
Subhash: Namaste Freyaji! Thank you for giving me the opportunity to connect with your distinctive readers and be able to share my views on this great platform. I am father of a ‘almost’ 5yr old. I am from India and live in US. When I left India and was by myself, life was fun and carefree and even after marriage things changed but the real change came about when we had a son. We started to miss our country more than ever. There is always that emptiness when you live away from home but it surfaces when you look at your kid and want to bring the values you learnt growing up. You take all of that for granted until you have to find your own identity.

What do you do as day job?
Subhash: Just like most of us from India, I am an IT Architect. I love what I do and will continue to serve in IT. I find writing to be appealing; the satisfaction that you get from it is simply incomparable. It nicely complements my day job and gives me that break that all of us overworked people of 21st century badly need.

In a time when all books for kids seem to be in English. Why did you think of writing a book in Hindi?
Subhash: That’s a very good question Freya ji. You can say that is one of my motivations to pick up a pen. Hindi is a very personable language. In fact every Indian language is personable. Every language has a culture embedded in it. If you replace all the world languages and replace it with English you will create a big hole in the way people think and deal with each other. For instance let’s say you want to address your parents, your uncle, your brother and a friend in English the only way you can do that is ‘You’. But if you do the same in Hindi, it will be “Aap”, “Tum” and “Tu”. Before you start a line you have given your intent of respect and designated a place for them. People would still respect others but the richness and warmth of culture will be lost in communication.
Our kids are missing that. With so much of English literature out there right from childhood it’s hard to get them to understand culture. In my childhood days I could never imagine saying “Please” to my mother, because my language was so rich that I didn’t have to decorate with business niceties.



This is your third book. Why did you choose to write children's books?
Subhash: My motivation is my son. I write stories for him. I want to bring Indian culture to him one story at a time. I don’t want to speak to global concepts but some salient features too like my first book ‘Bargad’ is about Banyan tree, the national tree of India and this story also talks about Vat Savitri a festival known to certain parts of the country.

Where did the story of Chatur come from? What was the inspiration?
Subhash: Chatur is a very fitting story for 21st century. It is still a tiny step closer to my first story of Bargad in the sense that the price we pay in name of progress. Progress is good and great for civilization but every step should be a thoughtful step because cost for misstep is enormous. That was the theme for Bargad with tree as a central character and in this story the same learning is kicked up a notch. When writing this story I added two more objectives one was greed and second usage of MORE POWER which is closer to machismo.

Your story of Chatur has a different spin and twist from the old childhood tale. How did this come about?
Subhash: That’s an insightful observation of the story Freya ji. Advantage we have is that our kids don’t know the story that we grew up in. :) Jokes aside though, times have changed, we have learned those stories and we have embedded them in our life. But just like anything in life once you have mastered a skill you overdo it so the modern stories need to address to modern times and needs. When writing this story I added two more objectives beyond progress one was greed and second usage of MORE POWER which is closer to machismo. These second trait is a true need for the modern age. We are running so fast and so climbing so high that some basics are being ignored.

Why do you have the story written in Hindi and English script?
Subhash: I grew up speaking Hindi and totally love it, it is my preferred way of communication. I connect very well with individuals who can speak with me in Hindi. My son also knows that, and he knows when to pull that astra (weapon) out. :) Kids in USA have the advantage of knowing Hindi but they cannot read because it’s not part of academics. I believe that’s true to a great extent in India also these days. Kids learn hindi but they do so only to get through school never to turn back again. So idea of writing in both scripts is to reach every audience who can appreciate Hindi. It’s an attempt to bring them back home.

Do you intend to make an audio version of the book?
Subhash: I would love to make an audio version too if situation demands for it. For now I am focusing on writing stories and whenever I get a chance I do read them on radio shows so people with needs can certainly take advantage of that as well.

How can parents get a copy of your book? Is it avaiable online? Where?
Subhash: I want all of my books to be available to everyone everywhere and online retailers does that for me. And just with intention to reach people easily I have Kindle version of my book which are FREE for Amazon Prime or Kindle Unlimited users.

I would also suggest that you request for Chatur in your library, it’s a great book to share with everyone. We need to open ourselves to books relating to our culture and tradition. And share them with everyone; libraries are great way to achieve that goal.

Chatur is available on all the Amazon sites. Here is links - India, US and UK.



Would you like to share a little about your previous stories?
Subhash: My first book is ‘Bargad’.. Here is an excerpt about Bargad:

Bargad is a compelling story told through the words and illustrations of two people who grew up in a culture where customs and family are revered and incorporates the Banyan Tree to teach children how to respect, love and care for many things – including the environment. It takes place in VikasNagar, an ancient progressive village, where one of its oldest residents, the Bargad, is challenged of its existence. While Bargad has withstood all the challenges of time, the question now is will it be able to withstand modernization? Will anyone protect it the way it has protected others?
While Bargad has all the thrills and twists and turns that excite kids of all ages, parents will love that it is imaginative and thought-provoking and encourages kids to take a stand, see beyond the obvious, and make a decision about the outcome they want. Set against a colorful Indian backdrop, each illustration depicts a vivid and real example of what life is like in India – from modern cities to outer villages – and radiates the warmth of the people. Maintaining Indian names and characters lends authenticity to an already rich plot, with easy-to-understand rhyming verse that brings children closer to the core values of humanity in a fun and exciting way, subtlety demonstrating that sometimes it’s the things we take for granted that are there for us in the long run.

Vat Savitri, probably the most important festival in India, is featured in the story. While largely celebrated for Savitri, which refers to a lady who fought to bring life back to her husband and family, Vat (derived from Bargad in the ancient Sanskrit denotion of tree), is symbolic because it represents lasting ties to family and enriching family values.



Are you working on any new stories?
Subhash: I have 2 new books for this month. One is ‘The Magic of Friendship’ and another ‘Mother’s love can conquer any fear!”. They are both fantastic stories with strong Indian theme to them and they are both very funny story teaching a very important lesson.

 

Thanks for answering all my questions in detail Subhash. All the best for your future books. I hope your trend continues and we have more books in Indian regional languages.
If you'd like to know more about the Kommurus and their books, please visit their website - kommurubooks.com

Saturday, 11 April 2015

Joy - Rejoice the Little Things



I like surprises and Che likes giving them. It’s an excellent arrangement and I'm not complaining. :D

In continuing the surprise series, this morning three guys turned up in a van and brought me this...



My first wave of emotion was excitement and joy. I’ve been wanting a cupboard for my craft for a while now but have been putting it off for just so many reasons.

The second wave was a mix of emotions, upset, joy, anger, excitement. Mixed cause I was happy with the surprise but also sad that I hadn’t got to chose and design my own cupboard.

Then there was a third wave as I spent some time touching, feeling and gazing at my new cupboard. This one was a emotional roller coaster of warm happiness, tender love, and innate joy.

Looking back at my reaction series I’m a bit ashamed of myself for being upset. That was rather selfish of me, and even a little bit mean. I should have been happy, for there was so much to be joyful about.



The cupboard itself may not be a big thing but it was made up of a lot of big small things. It’s an awesome gift as I so needed it. I hadn’t realised how much Che had understood my want of a craft cupboard. How much I missed not having my craft stuff at hand.

And this isn’t just any cupboard, this is a piece of perfection. The KYNKYNY team doesn’t make furniture, they make art. There are hidden handles for the drawers, absolute smooth surfaces and each drawer opens at the slightest touch on rollers that feel like butter. :D

So while I sit and mull over myself, my Bow Wow Gurus chide gently… Don’t be petty, find the small joys in life, size does not matter, be happy, rejoice everything, even the little things.

I'll try harder Masters...

Friday, 10 April 2015

Instinct - It’s a Gut Feeling



The house we lived in previously had a tree on either side of the main gate that spread over the porch. The trees not only provided shade but also covered the floor with berries. It looked like a someone had spilt red and orange beads all over!

One tree was the Singapore Cherry and the other was Duranta erecta. The cherries of the Singapore Cherry tree are edible, they are yummy, super sweet and juicy. The fruits of the duranta though are poisonous.



When we got the dogs home for the first time, and I saw Max, my lab dive towards the cherries, I panicked. What if my doggie vacuum cleaner ate the duranta berries? I lunged after him.

But Max moves way faster than me when there is food involved. By the time I reached him, he had finished vacuuming one section and I was amazed to see no traces of red. All that lay on the floor now were orange berries.



He did this everyday, the red berries got eaten and the orange were left untouched. He instinctively knew that the duranta cherries were unsafe.

This isn’t the only instance, over time I’ve seen the doggie instinct kick in many a time and they are unerringly always right. They know when to not eat, what not to eat, when we are travelling, is it just Che travelling, or both of us, when are going to return,…

Their instincts are super sharp and honed to perfection. It keeps them on their toes and alive! It also helps I guess that they never double guess their instinct.



Yesterday’s post about an impulsive holiday was me following my instincts and it seems I was bang on, for today morning I woke up mind-fucked. Don’t know what’s on my mind, or whats troubling me but I do know I’m lost.

Looks like yesterday was just the start, today’s going to be the real bummer. :D So, I’m going to do what I do best when my head feels like a snow globe all shook up and I can’t think straight. I’m going to take time off to read, watch a movie and stare into space.

The dust will settle, it just needs some time. :P

Thursday, 9 April 2015

Holiday - Impulsively



Everyday life to me seems all about planning, to-do lists, patterns, schedules,… and all those boring things. I wake up and start out on a schedule. Absolutions, walks, feed yourself, feed dogs, clean up,… You know, my usual routine.

Everyday feels like a race, with milestones and obstacles. You can take short cuts, even some tangents and detours but you still have to pass certain check-points in the set time limit.

On most days it’s all a breeze and I don’t notice the routine but on some days it gets to me. It’s a feeling of claustrophobia that demands a break from the pattern.



The dogs on the other hand seem to take time outs when they want to. When they get tired of doing something, playing a game, or whatever, they drop it and head off to doing something else or curling up for a nap. They take time off. It’s not planned or scheduled, it’s just required.

They seem to understand the idea of rest, relaxation, unwinding, and such stuff better than I do. They take time off so impulsively.That might be the secret to their happiness, - not following a schedule.



I wanted to experience that too, so I figured I’d take a holiday today and do some impulsive stuff. Well, what did I do? I watched 3 old Hindi movies back-to-back. (I'm taking a quick break between movies to post.) :D

And I feel so good. Taking an impulsive holiday feels so good. :D

Wednesday, 8 April 2015

Get Off Your Ass - Get Moving



Now, this is one lesson I can learn from only one dog in my pack. Well, it’s true, that when it’s food or something terribly exciting every one of the six will be on their feet in a jiffy but at all other times there is only one that can beat jack-in-the-box.

Cuckoo doesn’t need a reason to be on her feet. She actually needs a very good reason to be off them. Getting to find Cuckoo sleeping and passed out are rare occasions that must be absolutely treasured. She is literally all over the place all of the time, almost omnipresent. :D



There’s nothing laid back in Cuckoo, she gives her all in all she does and she does a lot! She’s the sentinel of my pack, the all seeing eye. She seems to have a pulse of everything, and is at the heart of everything.

She is a little busybody, a high energy, extreme activity and warmly cuddly dog. Well, it’s all true except for the cuddly. Cuckoo doesn’t like cuddling so much, I think it’s because, she likes her toes always spaced out and free to jump on at short notice.

Cuckoo is always doing something. Sometimes it chasing the birds out of the garden, other times its watching time go by at the gate and sometimes it’s just sitting still and listening to the wind. And she does all of them with equal diligence.



It’s this spirit of hers that I have to find. This state of being that just doesn’t stay still. That is always on the move. Always doing something. Always hopeful. Always looking forward. Always positive.

Over the years I’ve told Cuckoo a lot of things but there’s one thing I’ve never had to tell her - 'Cuckoo, Get Off Your Ass!’ :)